10 Ways to Attract Your Yaoi Seme!

If you read yaoi manga and find that you’re universally drawn to the characters that are aggressive, impressive and stoic, chances are good that you are in the market for your own seme! There are plenty of ways to get the attention of the seme that you have your eye on, so try some of these tricks.

1.Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable.
It’s okay to find yourself tearing up and it’s fine to show him your more sensitive side. This can be hard, but at the end of the day, remember that trust is at the bottom of any good relationship.

2.Be frank about your needs.
No matter what you need, it’s important to voice it. People tell you to communicate, communicate, communicate, but when you are dealing with a seme, it is even more important; they can be more than a little bull-headed.

3.Let him take the lead
One thing about semes is that they are alpha males through and through and it’s a pretty good bet that they have their own idea of how things should be. It can be fun to put someone else in the driver seat, so sit back and enjoy the ride!

4.Don’t make him jealous.
Never, ever a good idea.

5.Share his hobbies
What does your seme like to do and how does he like to do it? You never know when the hobby can give you some impressive insight into what he’s like and what his mysterious past might have been. Does he do magic or does he specialize in spur of the moment getaways? This can all be quite telling.

6.Don’t let him fluster you.
One interesting trait of many semes is that they do love to embarrass their ukes. They love to ruffle your feathers and chances are good that they excel at it. Keep your cool, but if he’s really getting to you, let him know.

7.Be brave
Don’t be a wilting flower. Being hesitant, being cautious and even being nervous is fine, but when push comes to shove, you’ve got to show him that you’ve got what it takes to stand by his side.

8.Get to know his friends.
Semes have a habit of collecting some strange friends from the oddest places. They might be a little odd or rough around the edges, but their hearts tend to be in the right place and they can be your greatest allies.

9.Be honest
Do you have a dark past of your own? Have you done things that you are not proud of? If so, spill the beans. A betrayal later down the road can take you to some pretty dark places.

10.Be contrary
Some semes love partners who are shy blushers and some prefer partners who have some fire. “Tsundere” refers to a person who says no when they mean yes, and who will put up a fight no matter what. Sometimes, this can be a lot of fun for everyone involved, so if you are feeling contrary, tell him. Or not.