Why Do Women Fancy Yaoi?

The “Yaoi” phenomenon has been nothing short of stunning. For those not familiar with Yaoi, it is essentially a Japanese manga (comic book) genre that deals with homosexual erotica. Now, that alone is not something that should be all too surprising. Homoerotic art has been in existence for centuries. What makes Yaoi different, however, is the fact that it is written for and marketed towards women.

How well received was Yaoi by female audiences? Yaoi’s popularity is so enormous that it has become a worldwide sensation. The genre started in Japan in the late 1970s and now boasts fans all over the globe. Yaoi manga are published in multiple languages and fan conventions draw crowds on many continents.

This leads to a pertinent question: why is Yaoi so popular with women if its romantic tales deal with two male leads?

There are a number of reasons why this is so.

First, the narrative style of Yaoi is also presented in such a manner that it does not deviate from a female fantasy perspective. That is, the style of storytelling is similar to most women’s romance novels or films. Since there is a certain recognition factor present, the female audience will not have too much of a problem crossing over to Yaoi from other genres. This is because there are more similarities in the Yaoi style to these other mediums than there are differences.

But, wouldn’t the explicit sex be enough to turn the female audience away from these works? Not if the presentation is made in a tasteful manner. It is also important to understand while many Yaoi manga do feature explicit sex, the books are not pure pornography. Yaoi tales are crafted with careful attention to the narrative. These manga do not loop together a series of explicit scenes intended to arouse a bored purveyor. Instead, Yaoi tales seek to use the medium of narrative sequential art to present a character driven tale that contains explicit sex. In other words, the story takes more precedence than the erotic aspects. As a result, the work is more appealing to an audience that is looking for more depth in its treatment of explicit subject matter.

Yaoi’s ability to exist in other genres also adds to its appeal. There are Yaoi stories that take place in the realm of science fiction, adventure, westerns, and even comedy. Such “cross genre pollination” helps expand the popularity to new audiences. This is because those who would never venture into the adults only racks may discover Yaoi on the racks of their favorite genre. From this, they may become fans.

Of course, the fact that Yaoi has garnered a great deal of critical acclaim adds to its popularity with women. When a controversial genre is honored for its artistry, it becomes a more acceptable genre. This means it is “ok” to purchase Yaoi titles since Yaoi is distinguished from pornographic books of little merit.

Yes, there is much more to Yaoi than explicit sex. If the sexual component were all the genre was comprised of, the movement would not have lasted 30+ years. And, certainly, it would not be attracting such a large female fan following.

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Kaci July 17, 2009 at 11:43 pm

wow. so ture. I don’t know how many times people have asked me “Why do you like yaoi? Isn’t it just some gay porn?”

NO ITS NOT! Its the same as reading any of the romance novels I love to read. I always say this. PORN = SEX WITHOUT PLOT

YAOI= PLOT WITH SEX (between guys)

Now instead I can just give them this link.You explain it much better!

Zoei July 19, 2009 at 11:09 am

Thank you! I’m glad the article was of use to you =)
I totally understand what you mean..some people don’t understand but hey just stick to the motto
YAOI= PLOT WITH SEX (between guys) and it’s all gooood xD

GraveFlower November 5, 2009 at 10:21 am

“But, wouldn’t the explicit sex be enough to turn the female audience away from these works? Not if the presentation is made in a tasteful manner. It is also important to understand while many Yaoi manga do feature explicit sex, the books are not pure pornography.”

I beg to differ, personally am fan of hard yaoi! A lot of yaoi is soft core, but there is a whole realm of hardcore smut yaoi for the, uhmm, shall I say more daring women =) Yaoi basically stands for “No climax, no point, no meaning”, just pure pleasure =)

Read Miyamoto Kanos stuff, she I would say is soft core. But if you start reading stuff like Love Prism you are heading down the hardcore Yaoi road.

Zoei November 5, 2009 at 2:31 pm

Thanks for commenting and for the insight :)
You know I don’t think I actually read Love Prism, I always heard people talking about it. Imma have to check it out very soon!

shayne May 7, 2010 at 2:16 am

i really do love yaoi even if im just 15 i have already read a lot of yaoi mangas and watched alot yaoi animes… to be honest yaoi+schoollife+comdy+romance=my favorite genres,hehehe my favorite mangaka ovecourse is nekota yonezou next is zaou taishi….may yaoi live forever!!!!!!!

Kat May 7, 2010 at 12:03 pm

hehe thanks so much for the comment!:) I think I’ve started reading yaoi when I was around 16 or 17 (my friend took along time to introduce it to me >.<) but yeah I too very much enjoy reading the same genre of yaoi manga as you do. Every once and a while I will read yaoi drama's, their just so emotional for me to read lol T_T. And as far as yaoi anime….I watch everything haha!

oh yeah thanks also for listing your fav mangaka I will add them to the list!
Have a great weekend
Kat

Nicole June 3, 2010 at 2:53 am

So True!!! Yaoi rocks!!! first i was a bit sarcastic about yaoi because of its… uhh… explicit contents but once i got bored with boyXgirl relationship(where the plot seems so obvious and its getting boring even though i still read some) i started to explore yaoi genres and damn how i am wrong… Yaoi is definitely great. many people just wouldn’t just understand it because they give yaoi a damn malicious thinking! Anyway, once i got started with yaoi its so damn addicting and i couldn’t sleep without reading one(there is a time that my computer had a virus(25) because i was downloading a yaoi comics.. hehehe… :silly: ) my other friend who WAS so sarcastic to yaoi before also got addicted… i just said to her… “see it isn’t so bad! the plots are great and very different from girlXboy story… its intense! :yes: hehehe

Kat June 5, 2010 at 11:36 am

Haha wow that’s a great story about how you at first didn’t like Yaoi to now when your like addicted to it. I think it’s just something where you either hate it or just love, but i mean people have to be opened minded to the genre for starters because if they have no idea what Yaoi is all about they’ll be completely shocked by it @_@ Like OMGOSH what in the world am I reading or watching!!!!!!?? xD
Oh gosh your poor computer…25 virus! Dang that’s crazy but I totally understand your reason gurl lol
and no joke Yaoi is very intense vs. the girlXboy stories!

Thank you for sharing your story, that was really great! :)

~Kat

jacy July 10, 2010 at 12:00 am

when i see yaoi i wish to be a guy to be gay!
charecters are so hot…

Kat July 10, 2010 at 10:49 am

lol xD. So true they are some hot characters!

~Kat

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